The key to a successful approach can be summed up in one word… CONFIDENCE. Women aren’t unlike predators in the sense that they can smell fear on their victims. And if you show fear, that’s exactly what you’ll be… a victim. Although they sound vicious, women just aren’t as scary as they sound. Approaching women with proper technique is something that is learned… nobody is born with it. So next time you approach that gorgeous blonde at the bar, keep this lesson in mind.

Confidence

First and foremost, I’d like to touch on this subject, as it holds your key to ultimate success or failure. If you aren’t confident in yourself, what makes you think that she’s going to be confident in you? Dating & Relationships are as primal an art as anything that exists today. Understanding the primal needs and reactions of women when put in particular situations is the key to understanding how to approach them. Just like in the natural world, women want a mate that is able to flaunt himself. It’s not unlike any creature in the wild. You have to show that you are the best match for her by allowing her to see that you are the alpha male… you are the best and brightest prospect in a room full of douchebags. This may, or may not be true… but it’s all in the presentation.

If you truly want a chance at success in the area of dating, you’ll need to put your best foot forward. When approaching your target, there are a few things that she’ll notice before you ever say a word. These are what I call “dealbreakers” and they can send you home alone before you ever open your mouth. So make sure and follow these tips like a checklist before you even consider approaching a woman.

• Smile
• Make eye contact
• Good posture (head up, shoulders back, no slouching)
• Look sharp (clean and pressed clothing, matching, clean, smell nice)

That’s it… these four things will allow you to approach a woman without fear. This part is more crucial to your dating success than just about anything else. Ever wonder why women don’t look interested when all you are trying to do is introduce yourself? This is why. You have to present yourself as the best and brightest guy in the room, before ever uttering a word. Take this advice and it will open the door for you to have a chance at success with just about anyone.

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