If you look at the many groups of women while you are out, whether it is at a movie theater, bar, or a bookstore, there is usually one that is very outgoing and seeking the most attention. She is the animated one that you will usually hear long before you see her. This is the girl that most of the other women may envy because of her natural ability to attract attention from men. Next to her you may see the shy girl, sitting quietly just listening to her. They are seeking just as much attention, but they just aren’t as loud as the first woman, and may not know how to get the attention. This is your target.
This is the woman that you should seek out yourself. You’ll notice her immediately. She’ll be the quiet one, probably laughing at everything the outgoing woman has to say, but she is rarely saying anything herself. These are the women that do not get as much attention, but may have something special to offer. Simply go right up to her and tell her how you can’t believe that a woman as beautiful as her isn’t getting the attention that the other women are getting. Ask to join her and make it known that you want to get to know her, and not her friends. She will be flattered that someone took the time to get to know her. Make sure you ask her name and other questions about her. You can even offer to buy her a drink. Do not say anything negative about her friends; just make sure that she knows that she is the one you are interested in.
The key to the picking up the shy friends is to give them the attention that they desire, yet may not know how to attract. They aren’t as loud and animated as the “alpha female” in the group, but they may have more to offer. They are definitely worth the attention.
If anything, this will allow you to get to know a beautiful girl that doesn’t have to be the life of the party. Perhaps she has more to offer than the other woman, and maybe this is a woman that you may like to get to know further. The only way you can tell is to seek out the shy girl and give her the attention she deserves.
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