[Update: The “2 for 1 Roses” offer has ended]

I know, I know…Valentine’s Day seems like a “made up holiday” to separate us men from our hard-earned cash. Well, I have to admit that I am a hopeless romantic, so it is actually nice to have a day that allows me to get my sweetie some flowers without her asking, “OK, what did you do wrong?”

Atom Magazine has a special deal with 1-800-Flowers that will only last until 11:59 PM on Monday, February 11th. Sorry for the late post about this, but I just got the details about the deal myself. So here it is: You can get 2 Dozen Roses, plus a free “Premium Pink Vase”, for the price of 1 Dozen Roses. That price is $39.99, and you can get this deal by clicking on the previous link, on the image in this post, or the square 1-800 Flowers advertisement in the right-hand column throughout the site.

I already ordered several sets myself, so I know it is legitimate. Hope this helps some of you fellow “last minute shoppers”, but remember that the time on this is very limited.

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If you look at the many groups of women while you are out, whether it is at a movie theater, bar, or a bookstore, there is usually one that is very outgoing and seeking the most attention. She is the animated one that you will usually hear long before you see her. This is the girl that most of the other women may envy because of her natural ability to attract attention from men. Next to her you may see the shy girl, sitting quietly just listening to her. They are seeking just as much attention, but they just aren’t as loud as the first woman, and may not know how to get the attention. This is your target.

This is the woman that you should seek out yourself. You’ll notice her immediately. She’ll be the quiet one, probably laughing at everything the outgoing woman has to say, but she is rarely saying anything herself. These are the women that do not get as much attention, but may have something special to offer. Simply go right up to her and tell her how you can’t believe that a woman as beautiful as her isn’t getting the attention that the other women are getting. Ask to join her and make it known that you want to get to know her, and not her friends. She will be flattered that someone took the time to get to know her. Make sure you ask her name and other questions about her. You can even offer to buy her a drink. Do not say anything negative about her friends; just make sure that she knows that she is the one you are interested in.

The key to the picking up the shy friends is to give them the attention that they desire, yet may not know how to attract. They aren’t as loud and animated as the “alpha female” in the group, but they may have more to offer. They are definitely worth the attention.

If anything, this will allow you to get to know a beautiful girl that doesn’t have to be the life of the party. Perhaps she has more to offer than the other woman, and maybe this is a woman that you may like to get to know further. The only way you can tell is to seek out the shy girl and give her the attention she deserves.

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The key to a successful approach can be summed up in one word… CONFIDENCE. Women aren’t unlike predators in the sense that they can smell fear on their victims. And if you show fear, that’s exactly what you’ll be… a victim. Although they sound vicious, women just aren’t as scary as they sound. Approaching women with proper technique is something that is learned… nobody is born with it. So next time you approach that gorgeous blonde at the bar, keep this lesson in mind.

Confidence

First and foremost, I’d like to touch on this subject, as it holds your key to ultimate success or failure. If you aren’t confident in yourself, what makes you think that she’s going to be confident in you? Dating & Relationships are as primal an art as anything that exists today. Understanding the primal needs and reactions of women when put in particular situations is the key to understanding how to approach them. Just like in the natural world, women want a mate that is able to flaunt himself. It’s not unlike any creature in the wild. You have to show that you are the best match for her by allowing her to see that you are the alpha male… you are the best and brightest prospect in a room full of douchebags. This may, or may not be true… but it’s all in the presentation.

If you truly want a chance at success in the area of dating, you’ll need to put your best foot forward. When approaching your target, there are a few things that she’ll notice before you ever say a word. These are what I call “dealbreakers” and they can send you home alone before you ever open your mouth. So make sure and follow these tips like a checklist before you even consider approaching a woman.

• Smile
• Make eye contact
• Good posture (head up, shoulders back, no slouching)
• Look sharp (clean and pressed clothing, matching, clean, smell nice)

That’s it… these four things will allow you to approach a woman without fear. This part is more crucial to your dating success than just about anything else. Ever wonder why women don’t look interested when all you are trying to do is introduce yourself? This is why. You have to present yourself as the best and brightest guy in the room, before ever uttering a word. Take this advice and it will open the door for you to have a chance at success with just about anyone.

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More often than not, guys struggle with the fundamentals of dating. Any jackass can get a date, it’s how well you perform on this date that sets you up for any future encounters. Thinking of how her bedroom looks? Don’t blow it on the first date. These simple tips should decrease the possibility of you becoming a one-hit-wonder.

Be Confident
This is and always will be the number one key to successful dating. Now, this is going to be easier for some than others, and you may be reading this thinking “but, I could never have the confidence to approach a girl”. If you think that way, you may have already lost the battle. The old saying is always correct - “Confidence is key”. Most men aren’t born with a lot of confidence, but there is hope… through repetition, confidence can become a learned behavior.

Be Considerate (but not too considerate)
Being considerate is the easiest way to a womans heart. However, if you are too considerate, you may get stuck in the dreaded “friends zone”. The easiest way to avoid the friends zone is to make your intentions known early on. If you come across as a friend, that’s all you will ever be thought of.

Take Care of Yourself
I don’t mean you need to get down the gym and get yourself a six-pack. Although that is never a bad thing, it’s not easy, and we’re just looking for the easy ways to get the girl. I’m just talking about the real basic stuff here - brush your teeth, wash your hair, get a haircut, wear clean clothes. And most importantly, always read the “style” section of Atom Magazine. Stick to our guidelines and we won’t allow you to look like a chimp in a cheap suit.

Have Something To Say
This should be the easy part. I understand that some men truly struggle in the field of communication, but just relax, take a deep breath, and try to be pleasant. Just memorize a few bits of information (even better if it’s something amusing) and bring them up in conversation. Don’t reel them off in a list and make it look like you’ve swallowed a periodical!

Be Funny
I don’t mean you have to be a comedian, but you need the ability to laugh at yourself and not be too serious. Humor always comes out on top when women list their favorite traits in men. Note - sarcasm is generally a poor sense of humor and will not make you look attractive, so avoid at all costs.

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